Mixed Faces in Mixed Places: Finding Connection in a Disconnected World
About the keynote:
For children in care, frequent moves create a unique challenge: multiple environment fatigue. This keynote explores the hurdles of constantly rebuilding relationships, adapting to new homes, schools, and cultures, and navigating identity in ever-changing spaces.
From the chameleon effect to social adaptive mimicry, this talk offers strategies to help children find connection and belonging, even in the face of constant change.
Value and Takeaways:
- Understand multiple environment fatigue: Learn how frequent moves impact a child’s ability to form connections and maintain a sense of identity.
- Strategies for promoting belonging: Discover tools to help children adapt and thrive in new environments.
Insights into identity and resilience: Explore how the chameleon effect and social adaptive mimicry shape a child’s behaviour and relationships. - Practical support for transitions: Take away actionable strategies to help children navigate change and build meaningful connections.
The Ripple Effect:
Every Moment Matters
The Power of 1:
One Person Can Make All the Difference
Connection Before Correction:
Compassion Over Compliance
Making Sense of Absence:
Overcoming Barriers to Belonging
“Steven reminds his audience that real change doesn’t come from labels or assumptions, but from relationships built on trust, understanding, and genuine care. His insights challenge you to reflect on your own practice and reaffirm why creating safe environments—full of people willing to spend the time building relationships—matters so deeply.”
Julie Boanas-Petitt,
Head Teacher NPQEL
“The ‘archaeologist of emotions’ is what came to mind after spending an hour in Steven’s company. His story lights the fire to inspire, promoting the importance of empathic connection and the power that consistency in relationships brings to a child. If you’re thinking of booking any training or motivational speakers this year, put this one on your list!”
Deborah Laurie,
Specialist Education Adviser for Children Looked After
“Steven’s ability to use his powerful personal experiences of care to enable people to think differently about forming relationships was on point. His presentation will stay with all of us in the room for a long, long time. Steven is not only a beautiful person but a beautiful presenter who fills the room with thoughtfulness and hope.”
Diane Hull,
Executive Director of Nursing, Nottinghamshire Healthcare
“Steven has brought real insight and fresh approaches, ripping the veil off mistakes schools make daily. His message might be hard for some school leaders to hear, but staff and students will thank you for bringing him in. Make the connection with Steven and make a real difference to young people.”
Simon Larter-Evans,
Founder, Life Narratives
“Steven’s approach is bold, pioneering, and profoundly human. He empowers care professionals to see the extraordinary influence they hold in shaping lives. Through connection, creativity, and courage, he demonstrates how even the smallest action can lead to extraordinary change.”
Victoria Banks,
Virtual School Head, Middlesbrough Council