Making Sense of Absence: Overcoming Barriers to Belonging
About the keynote:
Attendance isn’t the issue—a lack of belonging is. This keynote shifts the focus from registers and rules to the deeper need for inclusion, acceptance, and value.
Whether addressing Emotional-Based School Avoidance (EBSA) or other barriers, it explores how to create school cultures where children want to be, not just have to be. You’ll gain insights into nurturing spaces where every child feels seen, heard, and valued.
Value and Takeaways:
- Address the root causes of absence: Understand how belonging, not attendance, is the key to engagement.
- Practical strategies for inclusion: Learn how to create a culture of belonging that encourages children to want to attend school.
- Insights into EBSA: Gain a deeper understanding of Emotional-Based School Avoidance and how to support affected students.
- Build a sense of community: Take away tools to foster inclusion, acceptance, and value in your school or organisation.
The Ripple Effect:
Every Moment Matters
The Power of 1:
One Person Can Make All the Difference
Connection Before Correction:
Compassion Over Compliance
Mixed Faces in Mixed Places:
Finding Connection in a Disconnected World
“Steven reminds his audience that real change doesn’t come from labels or assumptions, but from relationships built on trust, understanding, and genuine care. His insights challenge you to reflect on your own practice and reaffirm why creating safe environments—full of people willing to spend the time building relationships—matters so deeply.”
Julie Boanas-Petitt,
Head Teacher NPQEL
“The ‘archaeologist of emotions’ is what came to mind after spending an hour in Steven’s company. His story lights the fire to inspire, promoting the importance of empathic connection and the power that consistency in relationships brings to a child. If you’re thinking of booking any training or motivational speakers this year, put this one on your list!”
Deborah Laurie,
Specialist Education Adviser for Children Looked After
“Steven’s ability to use his powerful personal experiences of care to enable people to think differently about forming relationships was on point. His presentation will stay with all of us in the room for a long, long time. Steven is not only a beautiful person but a beautiful presenter who fills the room with thoughtfulness and hope.”
Diane Hull,
Executive Director of Nursing, Nottinghamshire Healthcare
“Steven has brought real insight and fresh approaches, ripping the veil off mistakes schools make daily. His message might be hard for some school leaders to hear, but staff and students will thank you for bringing him in. Make the connection with Steven and make a real difference to young people.”
Simon Larter-Evans,
Founder, Life Narratives
“Steven’s approach is bold, pioneering, and profoundly human. He empowers care professionals to see the extraordinary influence they hold in shaping lives. Through connection, creativity, and courage, he demonstrates how even the smallest action can lead to extraordinary change.”
Victoria Banks,
Virtual School Head, Middlesbrough Council